To men foreplay is jumping straight in there with the groping and sexual touches, but for women it is so much more!
Guys i hope you are taking notes on this one!
It takes so much more for a woman to be in the mood for love all the right buttons have to be pushed for us to be able to reach orgasm.
Women like a slow build up towards what pleasure is to come, for example passionate kisses and gentle stroking motions on the skin like on the neck or back staying away from the obvious areas helps to heighten the pleasure making the actual love making more enjoyable for both partners.
It is never just about the actual deed but about how "hot" you can make a woman before intercourse if you can't work a woman up then chances are she will not have an orgasm as women need more stimulation than men from sex.
Teasing is something women love if you just get down to it wheres the fun in that? We like it to last as long as possible and to feel like we can't hold off any longer and believe me you will get the "good loving" if you do these before steps!
If you set the right mood it helps the experience be more exciting, depending on each others ideal setting of course. But some ideas are: candles or dimmed lights, a nice meal (home cooked) focusing on each other for the evening no distractions like TV just a little background music and nice conversation like your getting to know one another again, naughty games like strip poker, dressing up, include some aphrodisiacs like strawberries (and cream of course) or slathering each others bodies in chocolate mouse or other types of food!
All these things help to build up to something amazing as that kind of attention relaxes you into the mood and makes love making so much more special and pleasurable for both of you!
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