There is nothing wrong with fantasizing about sex, in fact it can be fun to make that fantasy a reality with your partner included in it which I'm sure they will enjoy as well.
You could both agree to act out each others fantasies provided you are both comfortable doing so. Talk about what you like in bed, what you fantasize about including your partner in your fantasies makes them feel they play a part of your sexual thoughts which is always good and as it should be.
If it is a bit bondage you are in to you can find many great ways to bring this in to your sex life, if you both look up what items you both like then you will find something that fits both partners idea of a good time rather than giving in to something your comfortable with that will ruin the whole thing.
Some great items are handcuffs, bondage door kits (you hang it from the door and shut it then cuff your lady to it) leg and arm ties (ties the legs and arms up close together so that the woman can't move or control anything you do to her making it very exciting for you both) chains always a popular option for the hard core types you can use these on your bedposts chaining her arms and legs or in a room other than the bedroom like the cellar or something like she is held captive chained up unable to escape all you will do to her you could chain her so that she is standing up or laid down maybe even bent over what ever suits you both really.
Kinky dressing up gear lots of couples love fetish gear as it compliments the figure greatly you could wear something that fits in to her fantasy like a policeman or fire mans uniform, and she could wear French lacy underwear, stockings, suspenders and heels for you or a sexy leather dress, maybe she could dress up as a nurse whatever it is that fits in to your fantasy really.
If your lady has a thing for vampires you could bite her gently on her neck while having sex this will help her fantasy come true.
You could make it more exciting by doing it somewhere you might get caught, or just by grabbing her and pushing against the wall kissing her passionately while you slip your hand in between her legs.
Masturbate in front of her this will make her "hot" seeing you touching and enjoying yourself this will inspire her to touch you or to touch herself, you could give each other a helping hand and watch the other enjoying it although as you get close to climaxing it can be difficult to keep pleasuring the other person.
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