Sunday 26 July 2009

Giving a woman pleasure!















































































































































I have put a lot of karma sutra position pictures on as these are positions that are pleasurable for women and it is always good to try new things who knows maybe you will enjoy them just as much as your woman does!



The best way to learn how to please your woman in bed is to ask what she likes or when you are in the middle of pleasing her ask her if she likes what you are doing you will notice that certain movements or certain touches affect her more as she will moan a bit more intensely. There are always little signs that show what she enjoys even if she isn't noisy in bed like if she grips onto the duvet or bed, digs her nails in to you, moves her body slightly such as her legs stretching out slightly or head moves.


A few things to help you along:

  • A woman's clit is a well known spot of arousal, however if you are not gentle you hurt her it is a very sensitive area and needs only light touches to please.


  • The neck is an obvious one lightly breathing on it will send tingles down her spine and kissing it again lightly.


  • stroking motions on her body even if not touching her private areas it will arouse her as it is attentive and relaxing!


  • taking time to turn a woman on is always more appreciated than just getting down to it, we don't always get aroused as quickly as men excitement is an amazing aphrodisiac like the thought of being caught but when it comes to indoor sex we may need a little more help getting aroused so take the time to do the above mentioned and maybe go down on her making her want you even more just pay attention to her sexual needs.


  • if you speak to her in a different language women love this especially when making love there is nothing sexier than hearing a man speak a foreign language.


  • candles and a bubble bath together if there is enough room if not just keep your hands busy while she is relaxing and you can enjoy seeing her wet naked body as well.


  • glass of wine a DVD a duvet and dinner always a nice way to relax dim the lights and set the mood this will lead to a romantic evening cuddling and maybe more.


  • get down to some kinky games strip poker or naked twister something along those lines will lead to fun!

  • make it interesting tie her up (if she is OK with this) then you are in control and can tease her until she is begging for more.


  • bring food in to the mix using squirty cream, strawberries, melted chocolate, any fruits are OK and just things you can lick off her body don't just lick it off her body though feed her as well.

  • try out new positions that you both will enjoy!


  • surprise her and make her feel wanted by just grabbing her where ever you are in the house and kissing her and pinning her up against the wall or bending her over the kitchen units or sofa maybe even sweeping everything off the table and lifting her on to it to have your way whatever you can think of to make it exciting.

  • take it outside go for a walk in nature and find somewhere secluded to sit and talk and maybe more it is always exciting outdoors in nature.

  • use toys on her to get her going and ensure her orgasm when you finally penetrate her yourself.

  • dirty talk saying what you will do to it eachother then rip eachothers clothes off.

  • text sex! during the day you can send dirty messages to eachother saying what you want to do by the time you see eachother you won't be able to control your urges and will enjoy a passionate evening.

These are all ideas to help you pleasure your woman.

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