Falling in love!

It is a common misunderstanding today and we often confuse love with lust and liking someone people believe they have fallen in love when they haven't or it is too soon for the other person to feel the same leading to many getting hurt by rejection or the ruin of a relationship that is moving too fast.

These days many people both male and female are looking just for "fun" not for love and if we were expecting more because we felt a connection it can fry our heads somewhat. It is best to know where it is going before anyone gets hurt so that you can avoid wanting something more with someone who just wants sex.

There are those who do fall in love too quickly and tend to be the same sort who make mistakes in love and have many failed relationships ending up entertaining many "soul mates" over the course of their life.

We in today's society often rush into things whether it is sex or a relationship shortly after the previously failed one, or falling in love, love is a wonderful thing when two people feel the same but if we confuse those feelings and sleep with someone who wants less than we do then we wind up getting hurt and not knowing how to cope.

Falling in love should be a wonderful thing but today it is seen more as something that doesn't matter, men and women sleep around no strings attached.

Occasionally this is said to be because of past hurts in relationships but that is no reason to do as was done to you because this only further spreads the problem it never makes you feel better and it degrades you.

There are some wonderful people out there both male and female that could be the "one" so it is worth the wait not all men are evil and not all women are users, even if it takes a while and the no one likes to be alone during that time you have your friends and you can build up your life doing the things that make you happy then look for love!

First focus on you then on love when you are happy and have got your life back on track after a failed relationship, other wise you can tend to focus on the past and worry about the same things happening again in a new relationship which ruins things and fries your head!

Also if you are not totally ready for a new relationship you can come across as clingy or boring or just not someone a potential partner can see themselves with.

If your confidence took a knock because of a bad relationship it is best to build it back up first so that you are happy and confident when you find someone confidence is one of the sexiest things in a person it attracts peoples attention and makes you stand out from the crowd, pretending to be confident when you are not makes you come across as desperate or pathetic.

Relationships will be more successful if you have got your life on track and are happy so bear that in mind as good partners don't along often and even less often comes along "the one".